its up to us

i'm thinking a lot, as what i had been achieved today is becos of what i had believe or what other people believe?truthfully,its becos Allah gives us His mercy but,we,as the person who had been gifted with aqal to think,do we use it as maximize as possible? I jus,it cross my mind when people starts talking back about us,do we prefer not to listen or do we chose to make a different choice in order to satisfy others...hurm,in some cases,yeah~its totally worth to change but if what we had done is somthing right,does it matter? does it hurt to have our own freedom of thinking?

its happen a lot,even when you're making a small decision.you want to eat pasta,but your fren insists on nasi lemak.its ridiculous to hang out with your fren but end up having lunch by your own.in order not to create mischieve,you'll end up agreeing with your fren's decision. even this things happen when youre going to the university.which university would you chose?do you need to accept the offer from oversea?and etc...but what makes matter worse is when you're also listening to people when it comes to the appearance of yourself!!!

'you're look fat'

'you're look ugly'

'argh,the dress doesnt suits you'

'i think you're a loser'

so hows people cope with the situation.yeah, you have a choice to believe or not,but you dont need to take the impact seriously.its good for you to make a change,but do it for your own self.becos you love yourself.not becos you want to look good in other's eyes.especially if the one who's talking is your own byfren...youre willing to do anything,to satisfy him.if he said blue looks good on you,youll be wearing that forever~if he said youre look ugly in yellow,you throw away all those yellow 'things'. if he said you're fat,you'll go for some diet. so if he said you're ugly, do you need to risk your life by putting knife on your face?

why and why i need to mention all of this things? becos somtimes i think, people criticize others too much, even to the stage that theyll enjoy doing it. ok,theyre life is not that great,but the satisfaction to make people down is always there.you can feel down to earth becos of your appearance,but indeed thank God for all the things that you had.stop dreaming about perfection in everything,go for satisfaction with the normal life that you have. you can be beatiful,inner and outer, if you love yourself more than anyone do.....